So even though I have written an entire chapter in my book about online dating and the pitfalls involved I still seem to encounter more and more issues that revolve around this online dating phenomenon.
Gentlemen one of the biggest driving reasons you should not be dating online is that girls who you meet online are quick to return online to meet someone else as soon as they loose a bit on interest in you.
An attractive or even average woman will have her pick of lots and lots of guys on an online dating site. Sometimes guys will get lucky and an attractive girl (or maybe and average girl) will become something more than just an occasional texting buddy. These relationships are always short lived unfortunately.
As soon as she gets a little board with the relationship or decides maybe you are not as great as she thought you were she will swiftly turn back online and you will be left broken hearted because she will easily find someone else online.
Fellas, all high quality men need to remove themselves from online dating permanently.
Every day I talk to great men who are wasting their time and finding nothing but frustration and disappointment online. Women online will pass on a great man for a guy who is fake, uses scripted texts, or just leads with money. Those guys will always be out there but gentlemen they should not be mixed up in a pool with you where they can fake what they actually are and take your ladies.
For a great man dating online is basically a place to go when you just feel desperate. Unfortunately desperation leads you to a place where you are willing to bend your standards and maybe even behave in a way that is really beneath who you actually are. When you are feeling desperate to meet a lady you just need to give more fuel to your social life. You need to ramp up your social calendar and get involved in more activities that will give you the time to get out of your house and be amongst people. Organically meeting a woman in real life is the only way to find a woman who is worthy of you.
If you meet a girl in real life who dates online the result will be the same unless she has just been online for a very short time and it is her first time to try it. Girls who date online for extended periods of time are usually just passing through lots of guys trying to find the perfect one. Most guys online are low quality guys and she just passes through them one by one assuming that the next one will be better. She will never settle on one. Not even you.
I have seen so many guys who spend lots and lots of time and money on women that they met online only to be rewarded by her loosing interest in him and just returning online to find the next guy with time and money for her.
These women’s behavior leads guys to a place where they start to vilify women. Just as there are lots of low quality men online, most of these women who you will find online are also low quality. There is this phenomenon that seems to keep growing. Men are getting more desperate to find women to date and women are getting more reclusive. So when most guys think they can’t find any good women out and about they are right. But gentlemen these good women who spend most of their time at home or at work are not online. They are just not out and about very often. They want to meet a great man and hopefully someday they will meet you. Until then just stay great and stay offline. Going online is only going to get you to compromise your standards, waste your time and money, and lower your confidence.
